Observations by- Michael/Editor

Does he have your phone number?

The Black Man who hit on you today, I mean. He said you are so fine. He made you blush. He smiled at you. You liked that. In fact, you liked that a lot.

But you giggled and moved on. Or maybe you just ignored him.

But throughout the day, you have been thinking about him.

Looking back on it, you wanted to be with him too. But you were too shy or too afraid to say anything. In retrospect, you wish you had said something.

You need to be more willing to act to take advantage of an opportunity. Sure he might think of you as a slut if you give him your phone number right away, but so what? You're not looking for a romantic, long-term relationship with him.

You're looking for sex. Great sex!

And when he saw your reaction that first time he flirted with you, he knew already what you wanted. So what's the big deal? You both know what you want. Give him your cell number.

If you're not yet ready to take that step, get a free web-based E-mail account, such as at yahoo.com or gmail. You can safely exchange E-mails there. And of course you can hand out your E-mail address, on slips of paper or on blank business cards, to others who catch your eye.

After all, girl, you know what you want. And he knows what you need. When the opportunity arrives, act to take advantage. If you don't you will regret it later on.

That's today's lesson.

See you all in our free interracial sex chat room.

--Michael/Editor. Write to me.